I help betrayed spouses heal from the pain of infidelity. It might seem hopeless. It might seem that you will never get past this. I felt that way too, but healing is possible. I know firsthand that having a life that is even better than before the affair is possible. I can show you how.
If you can relate to any of the above statements, I know how you feel. In 2012, my world came crashing down when I discovered my husband was having an affair. I was completely blind-sided. I never thought this would be part of my story. I was in shock. But I knew I wanted to work it out. I had four young kids, and I loved my husband. But I made the mistake of thinking I could do it on my own. I thought time would heal the wound. I thought my husband would make it up to me and fix it. I thought God would heal my heart with no effort on my part. After a year, nothing was better. In fact, I was in more pain than ever. I knew I needed help. I found a therapist and saw her every week for several months. It was mildly helpful, but I still wasn't finding the peace I was hoping for. Next, I tried an online therapy group. I loved the women in my group, but still didn't get the healing I needed. After two years I was able to at least move it farther back in my mind, but it was still there, bubbling to the surface from time to time. Then, eight years after finding out about the first affair, I found out it was happening again. I had my suspicions, but I had talked myself out of my own gut feelings. I didn't want to believe my husband would do this again. He had been having a long-term affair with one of my closest friends. There were more revelations after that. I knew at that point that I couldn't continue in that marriage. I got a divorce. It was the last thing I ever thought I would do. But divorce was only the beginning of my recovery. There was still so much thought work to do for myself. I didn't think I would ever be able to trust myself or anyone else again. A friend of mine introduced me to coaching. I knew immediately this is what I needed. It was a much different approach than anything I had experienced before. The tools I learned helped me figure out what my deepest thought and beliefs were; about my husband, about marriage, and about myself. I was able to release the beliefs that were keeping me stuck in pain. I learned to process emotion instead of resisting or avoiding it. I learned how to understand and deal with the triggers that came up everywhere. I can help you do the same. After becoming certified as a life coach, I designed my coaching program to be what I needed in the aftermath of infidelity. Don't wait for healing. Learn how to manage your mind and find true peace. Whether you stay in your marriage or decide to leave, there is work for you to do for yourself. We can do it together.
Two years of despair, disappointment, tragedy, resentment, anger, confusion, grieving, a living nightmare of unspoken and misunderstood emotions are now all under my feet. I can stand tall and strong more than I have been in so long. I can stand in my happiness because I am in control of my happiness. and I can stand confidently that I want nothing more than to remain in my marriage. And I owe it all to God and Kristin. She took me and helped me navigate this painful process and now I'm walking with purpose.
I really enjoyed working with Kristin. I felt like she really listened to me. understood me, encouraged me, and allowed me to show up however I was that day. No judgements. She has an ear and a heart for hearing what wasn't said but what was in my heart. And each week she would remember what I had said in prior weeks, which really made me feel like she was listening and truly cared. And by listening she was able to see and help me discover some of my core beliefs and wounds that needed healing.
Kristin Romney is a terrific life coach. I had never tried life coaching before, but I have done a lot of counselling over the years. Kristin's approach was fresh and totally different than anything I had previously experienced. She was engaged in the sessions, attentive, compassionate, and she has a natural way of recognizing the errors in thinking, and helping to correct those errors. The time I spent with Kristin was very helpful and moved me out of the dark place I was in to being well on my way to a healthier, happier me. I have the tools now to think about things in a much different light, and it lifts a burden off of me. Her program walked me through all the steps of identifying, acknowledging and changing thought patterns.
I offer a 10 week course that I designed to teach you the tools that will help you find peace and healing after infidelity. It offers everything I wish I would have had when I discovered my husband's affair. The course includes a workbook with a weekly reading and homework assignments. The chapters are short but very powerful. You will bring your completed assignment with you each week to a one hour, one on one coaching session with me via Zoom.
In this course, you will learn:
One payment of $999
4 payments of $299
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